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Keep a Long Distance Love Alive

Relationships are hard work whether in a dating situation or not.This is especially true when you add the factor of a long distance between the two of you. Things can become even more complicated. However, with the use of the internet the distance is bridged a bit better. Worldwide online dating is becoming more popular.

Long distance relationships can be challenging whether you are a single looking for someone special or single parents miles away from one another connecting on a more intimate level. These types of relationships take a bit more work when it comes to communication, understanding and compromise more so than traditional relationships. Some people do not think it will work. However, this is true of many local relationships as well.

However, with some well thought out planning and a little extra effort on both parts, long distance romances can work. There are of course, benefits of having such a relationship, since you know that you are lucky to have someone on the other end of the line who is willing to go the distance

Tricks To Successful Online Dating

When you’ve made contact by email, avoid answering any questions you would not answer on a first date. If the man starts asking too many personal questions, beware. Don’t tell your prospective date anything about your income, past relationships, medical problems, etc. It is also not a good idea to tell him about how much you want to get married.

Include more than one photograph when you decloak. And be honest. If you’re not a 5’10”, blond-haired, blue-eyed beauty, don’t put out a picture like that. Men find the visual aspect much more attractive and remember there is always a lid for every pot. If you post many photos, a man will get a better idea about how you look and whether you are his type before he meets you. This is very important. There’s nothing worst than going on a date with someone you dislike or who is less than thrilled with you. Better to put it all out there in as flattering a manner as you can. Then, the man is coming to see you and

Surviving a LDR

1. Have a Date Night

One of the hardest things about being apart is not being able to do “normal” couple things. However, with a bit of creativity, you can still go on dates. For example, rent the same movie and watch simultaneously, while you talk together on the telephone or through instant messenger. Create a romantic mood by dimming the lights and lighting candles.

2. Play a Game Together

Couples that play together, stay together. Luckily, the internet provides a wide variety of games that you can play with each other. Fantasy games like Everquest, board games like Chess or Scrabble, and card games like Canasta or Poker are just a few of the choices available.

3. Fill a Calendar with Reminders

Let your sweetie know that you’re always together in your thoughts by buying a day calendar and filling it with reminders. Mark special occasions like your anniversary, the next time you’ll see each other, and romantic holidays on it. On days in between, leave love notes and reminders of

Some Advantages of LDR

Challenges can include:
Not always having that physical contact and touch we all desire from our partner. A bit of a higher phone bill. And to further this, a bit more travel expensive. Negative thoughts about your partner and losing faith.

There is no real way to replace not having that tough from your partner. However, very often just hearing their voice can be just as fulfilling. Hearing the love and joy in your partners voice when they talk to you over the phone is a very strong thing. How many times have you had a bad day or been in a bad mood because of some situation that happened to you and you called your significant other and instantly your mood reversed and cheered up? Following this, having a long distance relationship can add weight to your monthly phone bill, but that’s only if your are still living in 1999. With all the great technologies like VOIP phone services you can make extremely low costing or even free long distance calls. Also many cell phone providers have unlimited long distance packages and packages “favourite-5” type of packages where you can call the 5 people that

Romantic Love Letters

The Problem of Distance

You are unable to spend time with your loved one and there is fear that you may grow apart, your significant other may find someone else or the distance will weaken your bond. It is an age old occurrence. You miss each other; you get lonely; you long for affection; you (or they) go out share time with someone else, regardless of being in a relationship.

Sometimes, we just cannot help ourselves. After all, we are by nature social creatures. The likelihood of meeting someone else, through social interaction or being without your significant other for an extended period of time, is extremely high. The distance and pressure leaves room for temptation. Many fall victim because they cannot be with the one they love. The lack of presence is just too much for some people to bear.

Bridging The Gap

So the question is, how do we get over the feeling of being alone or beyond the constant yearning? The answer is simple. To prevent our partners from feeling lonely and to remind them “I am here and steadfastly waiting for your return”, it is essential that we keep the

Get Your Ex Back

The first thing you do, and this is more important for those in LDR than anyone, is to maintain no contact. It is paramount that you do not contact your ex. I was recently asked, “How is no contact going to help me get my ex back if I wasn’t there in person”? Well, it works the EXACT same way as if you WERE in person. No contact is something that effects the dumper in an emotional and mental way.

While involved in the long distance relationship, you have been a provider of emotional support for the duration of the entire relationship, whether you realize it or not. It was your emails, it was your phone calls, it was your kind words of encouragement and support that your ex looked forward to everyday. When you, by going no contact, pull that emotional support rug out from under their feet, they will miss it eventually. Believe it!

Imagine if your main emotional support group was, all of a sudden, to disappear from your life? What if you couldn’t call on (fill in the blank) to vent your grievances to? Or to share your hopes and dreams with?

Overcome Online Dating Problems

1. When meeting, do make up arrangements first. Since you barely know the person, do not let him or her meet you from your home.

2. Meet in public places. If it is okay with your date, you could ask another pair or some friends to go with you. If he or she is genuine in his or her interests, this shouldn’t be a problem.

3. If you are having a lunch or dinner in a café or restaurant, you should shoulder half of the bill. By paying half of the bill, you are free from obligations that you have to meet the person again.

4. If you have your own mode of transportation, like a car, you should use it. Do not rely on a date’s car so that you won’t feel that you have to ride with him or her if the date turns awry.

5. Try to avoid alcoholic drinks while having the date.

6. If you are planning to meet your date the second time around, arrange for one and evaluate if he or she deserves to know your personal home address. Never give your address when meeting the

Some Reasons Online Dating is a Good Idea

1. Volume: Perhaps the foremost advantage is the almost limitless supply of people online, all with one common goal: to find a date. The huge numbers of available singles improve the odds of meeting the Mr. or Miss/Ms. Right. And, there are always fresh “supplies” as new people continue to join dating sites.

2. No guessing (in most cases) as to whether the other person is available or not, as they wouldn’t be on a dating site if they weren’t.

3. Wide net: Online dating offers you the opportunity contact multiple prospects at the same time. After exchanging emails and/or phone calls you can determine which if any is worth keeping. If none, just continue your search.

4. Online dating eliminates the awkwardness of first introductions. The first encounter is always the hardest for most people, and getting over it makes the rest of the dating experience much easier.

5. Speed: Online dating is designed towards a fast and efficient initial contact. Once the contact has been made, you can slow things slowed down to find out if you have a match.

Long Distance Dating

Internet dating thankfully has come to the rescue of such fellows. Through the chat rooms, meeting and connecting with new people has been eased. However, this too has its own barriers. The communication distance has been lengthened because most of the people you meet on the Internet come from all corners of the world.

Is it true that long distance dating makes the heart grow fonder? However true or false this might be, here a re a few tips to help you through whenever you think of the long distance.

Visitations: Pay a visit to your special friend and spend quality time together that will compensate for the coming times ahead when you will be apart.

Advance with technology: Use e-mails, social networks and texts messages to your advantage, and help bring you closer.

Use snail mail: There is nothing as romantic as the hand written letters and small gift packages. It adds a sense of romanticism.

Have a game plan: This is to keep you on page of what you both want from the relationship and how to make it evolve into something serious.

Commit: It takes a lot of hard

Basics of Long Distance Dating

Some of the time long distance dating occurs because a couple that met locally becomes separated by factors such as school, military service, or job assignments. Other times the dating occurs because the potential date lives far away when first encountered. Regardless of why the separation exists, the ability to communicate almost constantly gives the long distance dater as much chance for success as their local dating counterparts. Communication is widely viewed as one of the essentials of a successful relationship, and there is no reason why this should be neglected.

One pitfall of the long distance dater, especially the one who first meets the potential date with the separation already in place, is the tendency to think of the long distance partner as somehow less important than the date down the street. This is expressed in the world of internet dating by the use of “online” relationships as opposed to “real life” relationships. Rest assured that considering your dating relationship as a little less than real life will ensure that it will not flourish, nor will it last long.

We have shrunk the world with our technology. No longer need we look around our own

Virtual Dating

The internet wins again in the cutting edge dating arena with this online dating service, and you only have to sign up and log on to find Mr. or Ms. Right.

The benefits are simple-you choose when you want to meet someone new, when you want to see them, and can do it all from the privacy of your own home! (Some sights are free online dating log in for women, some are free for men.)

Ever been on a blind date and you’re not sure you want them to know where you live? Well virtual online dating takes all the pain of making excuses away while you try to escape. Don’t want to spend a lot of money on a first date but don’t want to seem stingy? The free online dating sites also allow you to set up a more intimate date at your leisure. Online personals and internet dating leave you wanting to see what the other person looks like, but how to do it without committing to a date? Virtual dating lets you talk and see each other as much as the two of you would like before actually going out.

Check Your Online Date’s Honesty

1. Listen to what your gut is saying. If something does not feel right when talking to the person, then most likely, something may indeed be wrong and that he or she is not saying the truth. If something does not feel right when communicating with him or her, it is probably an indication to move on. Trust on your instincts.

2. Do not give out your personal home information too early. If he or she is an honest person, he or she would understand this. He or she knows the danger that lurks in online dating, so it is just understandable that you take enough measures to protect yourself. In fact, he or she might admire you for that. It just shows that you are not that cheap and desperate in hooking up with dates.

If you want to meet that person again on a second date, arrange for another one. From there, assess if you can give him or her your contact information.

3. To maximize your safety, make an anonymous electronic mail account in services like Yahoo or Hotmail. Try not to give your complete name. This would increase your privacy information.

Creating Online Dating Profile

1- Take as much time as you need to build your profile, there  is no need to rush through this process. Read each section  carefully and be sure to give as much information as you can.  In the “talk about yourself” section be sure to have more then just a just couple sentences. You must remember that potential dating partners are reading this info to get a feel of whether or not the two of you might “hit it off”. So tell them about yourself. Your likes, your dislikes etc.

2- You want to standout from the crowd. There are lots, and I mean lots of “I’m a 26 year old SWF/SWM who likes movies and swimming”. You need to be more specific so you can create an interest in you. After all you are creating a sales page for yourself. What are your favorite movies, t.v. shows, music, singer, group, etc? Do you have any hobbies? Play sports? Yes? Then tell people about it. Do you have a great sense of humor? Then show people that great sense humor.

3- Remember that being negitive is not an attractive trait in a date. Be positive about

Long Distance Relationships Online

Keeping in touch with your prospective match is vital when you are dating someone who is living far away. Exchanging more emails is good assurance. This is especially when your primary mode of communication is the computer.

There are two ways to do this. You can either purchase a mobile that has the function of accessing your emails or the internet. Otherwise, I would recommend you to configure your email software to send a notification signal to your mobile when a new message is in your inbox. This is usually a default feature, so you don’t have to worry too much about buying new software.

If you are already chatting to the other person on the phone regularly, it is a good idea to make international calls occasionally. But, please be conscious of the amount of time you spend when you make the phone calls. Or else, there will be a hefty phone bill that you will need to pay!

Another thing that you need to be concerned about is that there is a time difference involved in different states. Be sure not to call your prospective match in the middle of the night

Risk with Online Dating

Take The Time To Know The Person

Again, this is a common dating tip that you can apply to all forms of dating. Don’t let yourself be blinded by a person’s superficial beauty. For a relationship to grow and work, you have to find out if you’ve got more than sexual chemistry going on for the both of you. If you take the time to know your
date, you’ll know if he or she has some secret quirks that can easily make you tick or turn you off. Now, when taking the time to know a person, I’m not saying that you should spend time with them 24/7. All it takes to know a person is to talk to your date and listen to what they have to say, rather than do the talking the whole time.

Do A Little Research

One really wonderful thing about the Internet is that you can know just about anything and everything in one sitting. You can try checking on and confirming the identity of your date through a little Internet research. You may also make
sure that the dating site you’ve enlisted into have employed sufficient protection to

Safety Ways for Online Dating

Unfortunately, although most guys/girls you will meet in an online dating situation are normal, honest people, there are the few that are not. Online dating is a wonderful way to connect, and has a terrific success rate. However, there are still many important safety rules to follow. Here are three of the most important ones:

1. Get to know someone via the dating site’s online messaging system before you give out personal information. Be very careful about just giving out personal information (name, address, phone numbers) without knowing who you are really talking to.

2. Before meeting your potential date in person, ask for references from his/her pastor, minister, job supervisor, friends, etc. Try to speak to these people in person. Make sure the person you are talking to is really who she/he say they are.

3. Never meet in private for the first meeting. Always notify friends or family of where you will be meeting and pick a public place. Even after the first date, it is a good idea to at least let one other good friend or family member know where you will be.

Using Dating Sites


The initial conversations should relate to regular things, such as what you get up to in your day-to-day life. Try to find things that interest both parties and expand your conversations from there. The ability to stay flexible in your topics will help to increase the likelihood of finding a successful match. Also, it is important to get involved in conversations when they start and not to be overly shy. Additionally, there are many different ways to get involved with a website and its users, such as sharing likes and dislikes.


Every user needs to complete their profile thoroughly. This will help to find other members that have a particular interest in your lifestyle. A poorly completely profile often comes across as not serious or fake and unlikely to attract the desired attention.


Make sure to invest a little time to shortlist the most promising dating websites that match your particular interests. There are dating sites to match literally every interest, so you shouldn’t have too much difficulty finding something that suits your needs. Also, there are plenty of review and comparison sites that can help to identify the best

Long Distance Marriages

Long distance marriages should endure the test of time. Distance should not erase that precious connection shared between two people who really care about each other. A couple requires relationship advice in order to endure to be able to maintain their distant relationship despite the distance factor that comes into play. Communication is the most important factor in such an arrangement. Communication that is constant and consistent helps to keep the relationship alive. Couples ought to dedicate some time to catch up, with their partners wherever they are. It is the fuel that keeps the relationship going. A couple can devise a way of keeping in touch whether through mail, phone or chatting using a web cam. Both partners are at least reassured of their partners love and commitment.

There are situations when long distance marriages succumb to the effects of distance. A couple should come to a mutual agreement to allocate time and arrange to meet physically for togetherness sake or a short vacation. It is the most recommended relationship advice that a couple should not take lightly. A distant relationship that is not spiced by regular physical interactions becomes lethargic with time. Distance has a

Dating Game

Dating is the first step in finding a lifelong mate, so don’t be in a hurry, go ahead and take your time. Make a list of qualities that you want in a future mate. Once you’ve made your list of qualities, memorize or carry them with you. These things will determine the type of person you end up dating. Keep in mind that your list should not be more than one page, as no one is perfect and you don’t want your expectations to be too high. Everyone has negative aspects about him or her and it is up to you to determine if the positive out weigh the negative.

People carry over past relationships to current ones, and this can be a hurtful thing. Therefore, many people are opting not to date. Dating may seem like a game, but we should not be selfish because of our broken hearts and scarred emotions. Dating has the capacity for good and evil, just like anything else.

Dating can be both very positive or a negative experience. Part of what makes us is the relationships we have and the lessons learned from those relationships. We should be more

Successful With Women

Offering consistent respect is the first area of importance, one that should be considered a basic human right and a mandatory condition for any interaction. Regardless of one’s title, gender, religious adherence, sexual preference, socioeconomic or political place, such respect allows for healthy boundaries of physical safety and genuine intellectual and emotional consideration of another’s contribution. I’ve found it quite natural to extend this same level of respect to everyone that I’ve worked with (including of course, women) and that this same level of respect was reciprocated. As a result we were able to create a work-life culture that supported both our personal and professional happiness. Collaborative ideas were validated and easily executed, sales and production goals were often exceeded and customer retention was increased, all resulting in greater revenue and more financial rewards for ourselves. I began with this area of respect because I am absolutely convinced that having it present counteracts and resolves many work related concerns.

The kind of fair and prioritized wisdom that values respect also leads to my next area, encouraging the acknowledgement of ideas. This definitely means more than just listening. Most of us would agree that women are generally more